when my servoy server is downtown on my box what happens if i need to make some quick changes to the layout or add a field or something? do i have to shut down the server, pull my servoy folder back to my machine locally, then start up developer, then move the folder back to the server downtown and then start up the server again?
When servoy server is running on your machine "downtown", you can connect to it using
http://downtown_machines_ip:8080/servoy-admin/
In the administration pages you can practicly do anything you need except create new dbconnections. So a quick change to a layout or modification to a backend db ( as long as the connection is already defined) is very simple.
Regarding your other problems I can only say that we are running a SUSE 9.1 machine remotely that we can control through VNC. I guess this is no option for you ?
We use it to create new dbconnections in the Servoy Developper installed on the remote machine and to install the updates.
HTH